Sometimes, you need to experience everything so that you would learn….

there’s no easy way in living life so live it as it is…

CRY.
LAUGH.
BE CRAZY!

And don’t miss the chances that life is giving you.

Because the most important things are not things at all…

Most of the time they are PEOPLE making your life worth living…

happiness quote by: Sharon Salzberg
It doesn’t matter how long we may have been stuck in a sense of our limitations. If we go into a darkened room and turn on the light, it doesn’t matter if the room has been dark for a day, a week, or ten thousand years – we turn on the light and it is illuminated. Once we control our capacity for love and happiness, the light has been turned on.

It’s midnight and Nancy couldn’t sleep; her eyes had become so red because of crying. Nancy felt so bad. Really can’t believe that his relationship with Johnny has ended. They had good relationship for 5 years now and they are so deeply in love, thinking that it would last forever… then suddenly Johnny has changed, she feels alone even though she’s with Johnny. Everything didn’t go so fine as time passes by. She feels like Johnny didn’t love her anymore. Until everything became clear when they had a talk in the restaurant that afternoon. She set up a one on one talk with Johnny in a restaurant.

Nancy: “I really want to settle this up; I really don’t understand why you are doing this to me. You suddenly became a different person and I didn’t know you at all. Do you want to say anything??? Any explanation? Do you still love me?

Johnny: “I’m sorry”

It’s all what Johnny replied.

Nancy: What sorry??? You’re making my life miserable! And what’s that sorry for???

Johnny: “I think we should end this. You deserve much better Nancy. I am sorry to say this but my feeling for you has changed, I don’t love you anymore but I would be happy if you find a great guy. We should end this now Nancy. Goodbye”

And Johnny stood up, never touched his food and walk away.

After that they never saw each other, never had any form of communication then after a year, Nancy find another guy and they marry after few months of being together, forgetting the past… Johnny was always in her heart but she just thought life could be like that, she still loves Johnny but it’s only up to there. You can never tell how long that person would love you even if you’re giving so much, that you never leave some love for your self at all. So she moved on, and was able to find another man.

It’s been a year after she got married and one day the phone rings. It’s Elisa, Johnny’s sister, giving her news that Johnny’s dead, asking if she could come on Johnny’s funeral. Nancy was shocked and kept on thinking what really happened. She immediately get dressed, rushed up and went on Johnny’s funeral. She’s about to enter the door when Elisa came in front of her. She hugged her.

Nancy: “Condolence” I’m sorry didn’t not know, what happened???

Elisa: “Its cancer Nancy. He’s been struggling with it for few years now.”

Nancy: “But.. Since when? I’m sorry I didn’t here anything from him since we…”

Elisa: “Since you broke up? Yes I know that. After knowing that his cancer was in critical stage, he became worried, he doesn’t want to make you suffer. He doesn’t want you to take care of a man who’ll soon be dying…. That’s all he thinks of. That’s why he broke up with you. It’s better that way, he told me, coz’ he really really loves you so much. And he’ll be so glad if you find another man that will make you happy for the rest of your life. He told me to invite you on his funeral, wherever he is now, I know he’s very happy that you came.

Tears fall from Nancy’s eyes, she was so surprised on Elisa’s revelations. Her body became weak. Didn’t say a word and she walks towards Johnny. She cried so much when he finally saw Johnny again after so long, he is so thin…

Nancy: You struggle so much… I’m so sorry Johnny.. I didn’t know.. You should have told me.. It’s really okay for me.. I really wanted to be with you until the end of your life. I love you Johnny, I always loved you…

Sad… but this is one good example of true love…

author:emjei

We have no more right to consume happiness without producing it than to consume wealth without producing it.

-Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi